Juggler teaches that amatuers rush, while pros take their time.
The scenario is this.
Two girls are waiting for the elevator in a college dorm. One's a brunette, the other is a blonde.
They are mid-conversation.
The second I see them I am thinking about how I can get in on the fun...nothing comes to mind. Instead of getting pissed off at myself about drawing a blank, I simply think, "My time will come" and relax.
We get in the elevator and they are talking about guys.
We are going to the fourth floor - we are now approaching the second. Time is ticking.
Brunette responds to the blonde "He's been calling three times a day?"
Game ON.
I sarcastically say "guys! can't figure them out...". I roll my eyes and smile.
I'm in. They love me.
What did I do here? I calibrated to the situation. I relaxed. I let it come to me.
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