Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Beginner's Mind
A while back in a post entitled "how to run game", I wrote that in essence all you need to do is be is curious about someone else..you just have to WANT to find out who they are, how they got there, and where they're going.
What you need to experience this state is called the "Beginner's Mind".
A mind free of judgement or preconcieved notions.
Only when you see the world as it is, and not as a collection of your past judgements, can you begin to connect with strangers on this very real level.
What you need to experience this state is called the "Beginner's Mind".
A mind free of judgement or preconcieved notions.
Only when you see the world as it is, and not as a collection of your past judgements, can you begin to connect with strangers on this very real level.
Your state.
Stop the endless pursuit of the high-energy, high-instensity party state.
It cannot be maintained and it's loss will only bring suffering.
Abide in a peaceful, clear-minded, compassionate,relaxed state. This can be kept forever.
Notice the most natural of naturals. They stopped chasing the high-energy state years ago...
It cannot be maintained and it's loss will only bring suffering.
Abide in a peaceful, clear-minded, compassionate,relaxed state. This can be kept forever.
Notice the most natural of naturals. They stopped chasing the high-energy state years ago...
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
A Bit of Zen Wisdom
Students of the way, if you wish to become buddha,
you need not study any doctrine; you must only learn to avoid
seeking and attaching yourselves to anything.
-Zen Master Huang-po, ninth century
you need not study any doctrine; you must only learn to avoid
seeking and attaching yourselves to anything.
-Zen Master Huang-po, ninth century
Got Game?
This whole pursuit of social mastery - pickup - being sketchy - or whatever you want to call it is just a quest for validation of this belief - "I have game"
From this belief, everything flows. From this belief, women flow into your life.
People spend years doing cold approaches just so that they can settle down and say, "I'm cool now, I have game, back to life.."
So of course, you know what I'm going to tell you..
Adopt the belief: "I have game"
What happens now? You are forced to trust yourself.
Trust your inner instinct.
Be spontaneous.
The world is yours.
You can do no wrong.
Why? Because "YOU HAVE GAME" but you've gotta trust yourself to use it.
I don't have the answers. Juggler doesn't. Mystery doesn't.
ONLY YOU DO.
But until you believe that you have this intangible thing called "game", you won't be able to find it. It's that simple. But hey, less is more.
From this belief, everything flows. From this belief, women flow into your life.
People spend years doing cold approaches just so that they can settle down and say, "I'm cool now, I have game, back to life.."
So of course, you know what I'm going to tell you..
Adopt the belief: "I have game"
What happens now? You are forced to trust yourself.
Trust your inner instinct.
Be spontaneous.
The world is yours.
You can do no wrong.
Why? Because "YOU HAVE GAME" but you've gotta trust yourself to use it.
I don't have the answers. Juggler doesn't. Mystery doesn't.
ONLY YOU DO.
But until you believe that you have this intangible thing called "game", you won't be able to find it. It's that simple. But hey, less is more.
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Where have I been?
I've been around. Enjoying life. Posts this summer will be sporadic, but hopefully inspirational. In the mean time you can browse through the archives or check out Dr. Alex's Tao of Dating. Should keep you busy for a while..
