Sunday, January 22, 2006
Charm
"You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him."
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You personality is conveyed indirectly by how you speak about other people. When you're talking with a girl and a mutual acquaintance comes up, act like he/she is your best friend - be positive! By talking up other people and those that are around you, you convey that you are a positive, secure, fun loving human being.
Speaking highly of others indicates that they would do the same of you. Speaking highly of other guys shows that you don't view them as your competition. Speaking highly of women, especially your ex, shows that you don't secret harbor ill will against female kind.
Also, this can serve as a form of disqualification. If you point out how great another guy looks, she will begin to wonder why you're trying to make her like someone else instead of you.
The key is to make it sound sincere and don't go crazy calling other guys hot...that will take you in another direction entirely...
-unknown
You personality is conveyed indirectly by how you speak about other people. When you're talking with a girl and a mutual acquaintance comes up, act like he/she is your best friend - be positive! By talking up other people and those that are around you, you convey that you are a positive, secure, fun loving human being.
Speaking highly of others indicates that they would do the same of you. Speaking highly of other guys shows that you don't view them as your competition. Speaking highly of women, especially your ex, shows that you don't secret harbor ill will against female kind.
Also, this can serve as a form of disqualification. If you point out how great another guy looks, she will begin to wonder why you're trying to make her like someone else instead of you.
The key is to make it sound sincere and don't go crazy calling other guys hot...that will take you in another direction entirely...
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 2:39 PM
