ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

Last night I was at a party where I knew about eighty-five percent of the people. Everyone was grabbing my shoulders, slapping my ass (guys and girls....haha) and saying whatsup. Drinks were flowing. We were having a great time.

I love parties like this, they are a great time, but...

I lacked the ability to focus on one girl at a time.

With so many distractions in my environment, so many things to do, such loud music, i was too busy attracting instead of relating and vibing. I would playfully give a girl the rock and then pull it away at the last second. She would smile and punch in one the shoulder, and then I would move to my next interaction. Sure, I can blame it on the logistics, but I won't. I blame it on my inability last night to focus only on that which was directly in front of me. One person at a time. Not letting my mind jump too far ahead of my eyes.

If you find yourself in a situation where all you are doing is attracting, and not relating, you need to really focus on..well..focus....This means direct eye contact, commited bodylanguage, and good conversation.

Live in the moment and see where it takes you.