ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

You MUST be different from every other guy. Sounds tough doesn’t it? Well its not. You yourself don’t actually have to be different, but you have to act differently. What’s the secret?

The “secret” isn’t to act cocky and funny, or to act like an asshole, or to act like a nice guy, or anything else.

To tell you the truth, you shouldn’t be anything else besides what you really are at your core. If you start acting like someone that you aren’t, best case scenario is that you will end up attracting women to your fake personality, and not the real you. Even after you add many notches to your belt, you will feel still feel empty inside because you attribute your success with women to this persona, and not the real you you. Now, that’s the BEST case scenario.

Worst case scenario, and the more likely of the two is that you will begin to act in a weird, uncalibrated way. You start acting mean to girls who are genuinely into you. You start putting other guys down. You start acting like someone who has something to prove. Girls pick up on this and won’t touch you with a ten foot pole, no matter how funny you think you’re being.

Ok, so enough with telling you how not to be different…what should you do?

You need to take your interactions with women, and people in general, to a deeper level than they are used to having.

Everyday we interact with more people than we can even keep track of. We have little surface level conversations that we have for no other reason than to kill silence and keep us moving along in our own little worlds.

Every so often, when we are lucky, we have an interaction that moves us, one where we find our selves connecting with another person on a deeper level. Not necessarily about religion, or mortality…it can be about anything really, but there is a deeper connection.

In these interactions we are so excited to be sharing our time and space with another person, that everything around us seems to disappear and the only thing on your mind is how you can’t wait to relate to what your friend is saying. You feel a rush of energy inside. You are connecting.

These are the interactions you will be having with women after your read this book and this is the reason that you will be different from every other guy in the room. You will be communicating and vibing with her on a totally different level then anyone else, and no one else will be your competition – you are literally flying above the race.

Naturally the next question is, how do we have these interactions?

More to come on this in the future, but if you can't wait to start having this type of success, check out juggler's "How to Be a Pickup Artist". He does a phenominal job at explaining how to take interactions deeper using his technique that he has termed "the vaccum".

This technique alone is the basis of my game now and when applied correctly, it WILL make the difference. Learn about it Here.