Monday, March 20, 2006
Addition By Subtraction
When two strangers stand next to each other, there is an undeniable tension.
A few weeks ago, while at the airport, I was standing behind a cute girl at the baggage claim. We both knew the other was there, tension was growing.
You aren't the only one that feels it, trust me. She does too.
This is a good thing.
As soon as I opened her and started relating to her, she LOVED me.
Not because I'm all that she had ever been looking for,(though I admit, I was pretty smooth), but because I had just relieved the tension.
As humans, we move away from pain and toward pleasure. I had taken away the pain of awkward silence and replaced it with a pleasurable interaction.
Next time you are having doubts about how you will be recieved, think about this.
You don't have to impress her, you will accomplish that solely by openening her up and engaging her.
A few weeks ago, while at the airport, I was standing behind a cute girl at the baggage claim. We both knew the other was there, tension was growing.
You aren't the only one that feels it, trust me. She does too.
This is a good thing.
As soon as I opened her and started relating to her, she LOVED me.
Not because I'm all that she had ever been looking for,(though I admit, I was pretty smooth), but because I had just relieved the tension.
As humans, we move away from pain and toward pleasure. I had taken away the pain of awkward silence and replaced it with a pleasurable interaction.
Next time you are having doubts about how you will be recieved, think about this.
You don't have to impress her, you will accomplish that solely by openening her up and engaging her.
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 10:03 AM
1 Comments:
interesting... i too have felt that "tension" with a person, but it went unacted upon. if only i had your advice at an earlier date....
