ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

I remember reading once, in a post by Juggler, that you'll catch little glimpses of Juggler Method in every day life and when you do, you'll know. Today was one of those days. I started talking to a guy at the pool today at this resort I'm staying at and I could just tell. He was a natural conversationalist and an unintentional employer of the Juggler Method.

He was not a good looking guy by any means, but how he conducted himself in interactions told me that his social skills were second to none.

We really oppened up to each other and I enjoyed talking to him very much, and then I listened to him talk with just about everyone else at the pool, here's what I noticed.

1. Question to get information
2. Reward with smile, enthusiam and interest
3. Open ended question about however the person just responded.
4. Relate back with a story.
5. Repeat

He repeated this sequence numerous times with just about everyone in the pool area, and everyone loved him...including the ladies.

The main thing here that makes it all come together is genuine enthusiam. The only thing on this guys mind was how cool what he was hearing about was. That's what makes it work. It's totally sincere.

Take a look at the structure I've just shown. Get interested in other people, expand your world. Get out of your head - your not THAT special.

If this model of pickup interests you check out Juggler's stuff, especially his ebook, over at Charisma Arts. It's so sincere, so natural, so effective... It's golden. t takes the creepiness out of pickup artistry and helps you become a genuinly cool guy. Check it out Charisma Arts.