ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

You probably didn't pay attention to her eventhough she liked you, the first thing she did (and all men would do withouth beeing PUA) is make you jelaous. This is it. So simple. And you Male got upset, wanted to have her, so you get into her trap.
Girls always dress up like that, girls always wear make-up when they go out, girls like to wear expensive clothes because they are women. And it is fun for them (like for you having a beer). It is not always about You (men).

I appreciate your comments..here's my take on things..

I fell into the trap..for about 20-30 seconds...yes..then i pulled myself out of it. It's a trap that many men who don't understand social dynamics will fall into and never get out of..

Girls dress up for a reason. That is to attract male attention. To deny this is to deny human sexuality.

Even if they are taught that this is "fun" from an early age...there is a reason behind it...

Dressing up for a woman is not like drinking a beer. For a woman, drinking a cosmo is like drinking a beer. Dressing up for a man is like when a man dresses up for a woman. same deal.

When a woman works out to lose weight she is doing it for the same reason that a man does it. to attract the opposite sex.

women are not above sex.

So that's my take on things :)

thoughts/opinions are definately welcome!

Oh! so Gunwicth method did it for you?

Charlie-

I actually read GWM about a year ago and yea this is what he talks about. Never really hit me until I was kind of forced to get myself out of that shitty state that I was thrown in.

I posted about GWM a little while ago..i've seen it work really well but It doesn't really match my personality..I like to have a little more fun when im pua'ing...

Thanx for the response in pretty human form.
When a guy (guys) drink beer is not equal with girls drinking cosmo. You go home, turn the ESPN on and have a beer or more. We go home, we don't watch ballet and drink cosmo. We rather put a new color of nailpolish on while watching Friends or whatever silly show.
I dress up because of myself. Ok, here I am not talking about other females I don't know, only the few I've met and in contact with. I don't want to go shopping in speatpants or wore down clothes for reason. Not because I can't get a guy then but because I don't feel comfortable look like a bum, also they don't threat me well at stores. Of course I don't wash the dishes or empty the garbage in stilettos but some "playground" stuff.
Girls loose wight yeah, to get better reaction from people (again, threat better everywhere!, they more likely to hire you if you look attractive, clean and heathy). From guys, it is important to receive feedback, it makes you feel better, you are perform better at work when a pretty girl (in your case) smiles at you.
Guys, we don't only look at your clothes but your !butt, nails, clean hair (no grease) and whatever the person thinks is important.
When I meet a PUA and I know he is, I let him drive only if I like him and passed the above mentioned criterias. If I don't like the guy for some reson, you can have the Moon in my lap, I wouldn't be interested. Bye the way, I may like you very much, I am not going to go home with you the same night, you can do cart-wheels right on the spot. :) sorry
me

Understandable...

I think this is telling of how females have been socialized.

As a female, you are taught to go home and paint your nails, because beauty attracts men, and makeup = beauty (with exceptions).

You enjoy this, because you have been conditioned to by society. Why? So that you have the best chances of reproduction...

With this in mind, a male can realize that women too are competing for his genes, just as men are competing for women's, and can have a more empowered frame of mind.

See where I'm going with this?

ps. im reallly goood at cartwheels

:) I do see.
I accept your pont of view. Ok, it all depends how your parents raised you, the enviroment you lived in, etc.
I didn't paint my nails and wore my monther's high heels when I was a kid. I was ugly, everybody made fun of me. The first time I shaved my leg was probably..around 17. I didn't have too much anyway. I was a tomboy, I rather did the cartwheels, climb on trees. I guess later hormons changed everything and I started showing interest to guys -or they did to me-, then girl stuff, like parfume, make-up, etc.
You (men's) parents and people around should have thought how to threat a woman, be polite and so, but today maybe grampa remembers only these things.
I gotta go now..

Anonymous,

My father raised me to treat a lady like the knights from a fairy tale. Always open doors, always be kind, never complain, buy them dinner & flowers.
Because of this "fairytale" conditioning, I didn't kiss a girl until i was almost 18. This fairytale BS is what 80% of guys do, and what true AFCs are made of. If thats what girls wanted, then I wouldn't be writing on this blog about how to be PUA. Sorry...but I respectfully disagree.

Spit,

BTW, what did you use to reopen the set after she push/pulled you?

Darius-

I don't know what I said. A good measure of how in-state i am is how much i remember. When I'm in the field I have mini "blackouts" where I don't even know what I'm saying...

With that being said, I hopped right back into the conversation cheerfully and unaffected. What were we talking about? No idea..