ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Open up

So many think that being aloof..being the cool guy is the answer... Never showing interest.. Never making a connection....

For those of you who know what I'm talking about, consider the following, written by juggler:
Alpha body language is hands below waist and not in pockets, feet spread apart, chin up, a slight smile and taking up space in the universe, relaxed and open.

I find it fascinating that these things are also the ones that make you the most vulnerable. Learn to be able to put your vulnerabilities out there. Drop your guard, look her in the eye and tell her you find her sexy. She could say,"Are you kidding? You creep." But she won't.

The more vulnerable you are the less likely you are to get hit. Take off your armor and hand her the sword. You will be surprised how often she will toss it aside and come into your arms.



Read it again. Take it to heart. These might be the most important words you have read in a while.

3 Comments:

Thank you very much! I WILL take it to heart
Great point of view by juggler....
Dude, btw, nice blog...wish you the best !
Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:19 AM  
outstanding quote

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