The more vulnerable you are the less likely you are to get hit. Take off your armor and hand her the sword. You will be surprised how often she will toss it aside and come into your arms.
Alpha body language is hands below waist and not in pockets, feet spread apart, chin up, a slight smile and taking up space in the universe, relaxed and open.
I find it fascinating that these things are also the ones that make you the most vulnerable. Learn to be able to put your vulnerabilities out there. Drop your guard, look her in the eye and tell her you find her sexy. She could say,"Are you kidding? You creep." But she won't.
The more vulnerable you are the less likely you are to get hit. Take off your armor and hand her the sword. You will be surprised how often she will toss it aside and come into your arms.