Friday, March 17, 2006
Winning The Game
Thinking back over the past few years or so, I realize that I've been with some absolutely stunning girls. I've had great experiences and even better stories. But still, I don't feel like I've "won" the game. No one does. In fact, Style, wrote that the only way to win the game is to leave it...
I think the part of this game that will kill you is the expectation of an ultimate "victory". It's not there, so don't go looking for it.
Maybe the term game isn't a good one. Maybe it's unhealthy.
Looking at an interaction with another human being as a game, as a situation where the ultimate goal is sex and you have to manuver yourself to victory is just wrong. How many of us wanted to grow up to be manipulative and shallow?
How many games exist where you can't win?
The game isn't a game, it's life. And it's real. And it's beautiful, as long as you keep it in perspective.
I think the part of this game that will kill you is the expectation of an ultimate "victory". It's not there, so don't go looking for it.
Maybe the term game isn't a good one. Maybe it's unhealthy.
Looking at an interaction with another human being as a game, as a situation where the ultimate goal is sex and you have to manuver yourself to victory is just wrong. How many of us wanted to grow up to be manipulative and shallow?
How many games exist where you can't win?
The game isn't a game, it's life. And it's real. And it's beautiful, as long as you keep it in perspective.
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 10:01 AM
3 Comments:
I'm familiar with games in games where you can't win but still play for the fun of it, the memories, the challenges you set for yourself.
This game is just a little more real, or is it?
This game is just a little more real, or is it?
What? and Huh? You are totally confusing....
"Looking at an interaction with another human being as a game, as a situation where the ultimate goal is sex and you have to manuever yourself to victory is just wrong."
So,let me get this right: you have developed a blog site where men can go to learn how to be "PUA's" and learn all of these ridiculous techniques, and then you contradict yourself by saying something like this- implying that this behavior is "manipulative and shallow".
Am I the only one, or does this make no sense whatsoever? I can't believe there are people like you in the world that actually go to such great lengths to manipulate women- it is just so incredibly SAD. Whatever happened to being genuine in dating? You people are so pathetic- you should really get a real life.
"Looking at an interaction with another human being as a game, as a situation where the ultimate goal is sex and you have to manuever yourself to victory is just wrong."
So,let me get this right: you have developed a blog site where men can go to learn how to be "PUA's" and learn all of these ridiculous techniques, and then you contradict yourself by saying something like this- implying that this behavior is "manipulative and shallow".
Am I the only one, or does this make no sense whatsoever? I can't believe there are people like you in the world that actually go to such great lengths to manipulate women- it is just so incredibly SAD. Whatever happened to being genuine in dating? You people are so pathetic- you should really get a real life.
So long as your in the game there will always be new targets and new girls you wanna reach, which will always stop you from winning the game!
Peace out and keep up the super blog, I look forward to your future posts!