Sunday, April 09, 2006
The Structure of Vibing
Vibing is the basis of all interactions. No matter how many tricks or techniques you know (or think you know), without the ability to vibe, you're dead in the water.
Everyone tells you to vibe, but no one tells you how. So without further ado, here's a little structure to help you out.
1) Surface level question: what'd you do for spring break?
2) Level 2 question: Oh, cool, how was that?
3) (a) relate back if something comes to mind that isn't too far of a stretch
(b) "oh, really, how did you feel about that?"
4. If (b) was chose last time, now you relate.
5. You should now be vibing with her... be free and keep it organic. The sooner you get out of your head and stop using this structure, the better.
For an amazing collection of posts on vibing check out Chad's "Hi, I'm a Good Vibe" series of posts at the Charisma Arts Weblog
Everyone tells you to vibe, but no one tells you how. So without further ado, here's a little structure to help you out.
1) Surface level question: what'd you do for spring break?
2) Level 2 question: Oh, cool, how was that?
3) (a) relate back if something comes to mind that isn't too far of a stretch
(b) "oh, really, how did you feel about that?"
4. If (b) was chose last time, now you relate.
5. You should now be vibing with her... be free and keep it organic. The sooner you get out of your head and stop using this structure, the better.
For an amazing collection of posts on vibing check out Chad's "Hi, I'm a Good Vibe" series of posts at the Charisma Arts Weblog
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 11:46 AM
3 Comments:
I gotta remember that when I'm in sets. Always lure the convo in that direction.
This appears to apply very similarly to Mystery's Bait Hook Reel Release method...minus the Release. Still solid game though.
I'd say it's much more analagous to Mystery's Mid Game theory IE Comfort building..
