Have you ever had a thought like this:
"If I could just bang one 10, then I'd be able to bang them all, beacuse like, if I could do it once then I'd just have so much confidence that no woman ever again would be a problem"
Honestly, have you?
Well you know what, I've had this thought. And I've banged the 10. And you know what happened?
Things got worse.
You see, the higher the climb, the longer/harder the fall.
So you get that 10 one night, finally. Then, it's tomrrow and she's gone.
For a few days you think about it, and you're happy. great. then what?
You want to repeat it. You HAVE to repeat it. Your EGO craves this confirmation.
Pressure to perform builds, an interaction goes poorly, and suddenly, you've convinced yourself that your 10 only liked you because of x,y, or z, and not because of your "game."
Now what?