ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

This whole thing. It's not about women.

You tell yourself it is, but of course, this is only to tame your ego.

"I'm fine, I'm the fucking shit, it's just that, well, you know, I have to get this particular skillset handled"

No. Life is not a skillset. Sorry. I ain't gonna buy it.

Maybe its not your "ability to interact with women" that needs correcting.

Maybe, just maybe, it's your entire way of thinking about life.

Maybe your lack of success stems from your inability to control your emotions. Maybe it stems from your inability to get over the past. Maybe it stems from your inability to let what is, be. Maybe it stems from your inability to let go of the future. Maybe it stems from your desire to control. Maybe it stems from your childhood desire for approval.

See, everyone's running around trying to cure the symptom "bad with women" when really, no one is giving thought to the disease.

Don't blame this on the symptom. Don't blame it on anything actually, it just is. No blame required.

What you can do though is look at yourself. Really look at yourself. There's something behind all of this that is manifesting itself in a lack of success with women. Why not find it and change it.

You can't just keep trying to hack at the weeds, you have to uproot them.