ZEN and the art of ATTRACTION.

Friday, June 02, 2006

The road less traveled..

So many times we see guys in the community ditching their values to assume new personas.

"If you do what you always done," they say "you'll get what you've always gotten".

All of the sudden we have thousands of cocky asshole alphas, who increase their value by trying to push others down. Deep down know they are lying to themselves.

We have guys who value authenticity and honesty, who will tell stories just to pull a fast one on a girl as a "learning experience."

Guys who are bettering their lives by ruining others. "It's survival of the fittest baby!" they say.

Riiiiiiiight.

This is life. Not a game. Your values still apply. There are other people in this world besides you.

If you come to a club and attempt to AMOG me and steal my girl by making fun of me and acting cocky and funny and giving me a noogie, I will gladly hand the girl to you!

She's just not that important to me.

If you really feel the need to act that way to validate youself, awesome. I'll move on to the next girl and let you have the last one. I just want you to feel good about yourself. Seriously.

In my ideal world, everyone feels good about themselves.

Excuse my tangent..

There's a higher road. There's a way to bring joy to the world by bringing emotion and energy and passion to interactions. A way to approach the world with integrity.

Lets take this road.

I'll help you navigate it.

Whaddaya say?
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 4:59 PM

1 Comments:

Amen. But sometimes, people get caught up in TOO many values, expectations etc. that they feel like they have to "live up" to it. Just do what you feel is right. Value's are just a "label" for something that cannot be objectified. Listen to your heart.

Oh, and check out this post by asianplayboy, it really shows the light side to us all:

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/06/on-being-man-and-pua.html
Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:30 AM  

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