Tuesday, June 06, 2006
Validation
So many of us started on this journey because we needed to get this part of our life handled.
Why?
Validation.
Getting a HOT girl validates you, and lets you know that "you're the man."
Come on guys, you know its true. Your friends will be jealous. You'll be the man. You just have to figure out the game and then you're golden. Life will be great. Life will be valid.
Herein lies the paradox: in order to become an attractive man, you have to be self-validated.
It is our search for validation that ultimately sabatoges our search for validation. It's a cruel little joke that the universe plays on us, ain't it?
No # of closes or lays will validate you. You can get 50 girls in bed this next year, and still be approval seeking. Running up #'s is not the answer..
To be continued...
Why?
Validation.
Getting a HOT girl validates you, and lets you know that "you're the man."
Come on guys, you know its true. Your friends will be jealous. You'll be the man. You just have to figure out the game and then you're golden. Life will be great. Life will be valid.
Herein lies the paradox: in order to become an attractive man, you have to be self-validated.
It is our search for validation that ultimately sabatoges our search for validation. It's a cruel little joke that the universe plays on us, ain't it?
No # of closes or lays will validate you. You can get 50 girls in bed this next year, and still be approval seeking. Running up #'s is not the answer..
To be continued...
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 4:35 PM
3 Comments:
ahhh yes. the desire to seduce like an ex girlfriend could. I think we could all relate... :)
Wow! that's a good inner game advice.
Both pratical and deep.
That's what im trying to do now,
being SELF-VALIDATED.
I guess as im dabbling in books to improved myself, SELF-VALIDATION means
SELF-LOVE which its real definition means a "HEALTHY SELF-RESPRECT" and i don't pride, or conceit. I mean just a plain and simple respect for yourself. I got that from Bob Proctor, a philosopher.
I guess trying to cultivate a healthy self-respect is a great place to start.
P.S.
No other person can give validation except yourself, ONLY YOURSELF. If you've validated yourself then you can validate others. That i'm still working on myself.
Both pratical and deep.
That's what im trying to do now,
being SELF-VALIDATED.
I guess as im dabbling in books to improved myself, SELF-VALIDATION means
SELF-LOVE which its real definition means a "HEALTHY SELF-RESPRECT" and i don't pride, or conceit. I mean just a plain and simple respect for yourself. I got that from Bob Proctor, a philosopher.
I guess trying to cultivate a healthy self-respect is a great place to start.
P.S.
No other person can give validation except yourself, ONLY YOURSELF. If you've validated yourself then you can validate others. That i'm still working on myself.
At least knowing about it can help.