Sunday, September 10, 2006
Fun
My biggest break through with regard to meeting women was when I realized it wasn't about meeting women.
What?
In society we are taught that the woman is that last piece we need - the one thing that will bring us status, pleasure, fufillment, happiness.
Consequently, it is this belief that makes us unsuccesful with them.
When you go out to meet women, don't focus on meeting women!
I would never just go out to meet women. What's the point? What am I chasing? What am I hoping to gain?
A girl? Ok, and then what?
When I go out - anywhere - i go out to HAVE FUN. That is my only rule.
Fun is all you can have. Who cares about results? If you have no expectations you can never be upset.
I don't know about you but I don't like being upset - but I do like having fun.
Fun is something that everyone is capable of, something that everyone has within them.
When you bring this side out of yourself others will laugh with you and become incredibly attracted to you. People like what gives them pleasure, its that simple.
What?
In society we are taught that the woman is that last piece we need - the one thing that will bring us status, pleasure, fufillment, happiness.
Consequently, it is this belief that makes us unsuccesful with them.
When you go out to meet women, don't focus on meeting women!
I would never just go out to meet women. What's the point? What am I chasing? What am I hoping to gain?
A girl? Ok, and then what?
When I go out - anywhere - i go out to HAVE FUN. That is my only rule.
Fun is all you can have. Who cares about results? If you have no expectations you can never be upset.
I don't know about you but I don't like being upset - but I do like having fun.
Fun is something that everyone is capable of, something that everyone has within them.
When you bring this side out of yourself others will laugh with you and become incredibly attracted to you. People like what gives them pleasure, its that simple.
|| Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker), 10:20 AM
It's fascinating how all the advice in the community can be summarized as "have fun". If you're not having fun every step of the way, you're doing something wrong.